Naked coupleHaving sex like a porn star doesn't mean the copious use of whips and chains (unless that's what you fancy).

What it does mean is learning a few tips from the sex professionals and thereby increasing your own pleasure between the sheets.

Follow these simple tips and you too could be creating your own version of 'Debbie Does Dorking'.

1. Smile like you mean it

First of all, take the time to properly enjoy yourself and make sure you show that you're being turned on and having fun.

Any porn star worth their salt lurves the action. You will never see any hint of embarrassment or shyness in the way they act; no matter what they're up to (and I mean no matter what!) porn stars look like they're loving every second of their time on screen.

When you show that you're aroused, you demonstrate to your partner that you are supremely confident having sex. And this is a key point: confidence in the sack is sexy. If you exude the confidence of a sex god or goddess you will have better sex.

2. You make me wanna shout

Following on from the above, the next top tip is to be vocal. All porn stars make an enormous racket when getting down to business. Whether it's guttural groaning or wanton whimpering, you'll find that being noisy in bed equates to having fun.

Not only will you discover that you become less inhibited, but your partner will respond in kind. Really let yourself go - moan and groan like a sex fiend, shout pure filth and have a good old laugh.

Forget about worrying if other people may hear (unless you're staying with your future parents-in-law - in which case this approach is NOT to be recommended) and pretty soon the pair of you will be yodelling in ecstasy and having the kind of noisy fun not normally associated with us reserved English types.

3. Take it outside


With a staggering 81 per cent of all sexual intercourse in the UK taking place on beds, it's time to take another leaf from the porn star almanac of good sex and move the intercourse outside of the bedroom.

Most porn action occurs anywhere but the bedroom, and for good reason: sex in the bedroom is BORING. Bedrooms should be where you sleep and not confine sex to.

If you just shag in the bedroom, you and your partner will get in a staid routine - which is never going to promote sexiness and fun. Take the sex into the garden or living-room and you'll find that the change of scenery itself already adds a frisson of excitement to proceedings.

4. Play the game


Finally, most adult films have at least a nominal plot and script. Porn actors normally stumble through these in a comical fashion - with a combination of bad acting and lewd innuendo - before getting down and dirty.

In films, this plot serves as a bit of foreplay before the actual physical action starts, and that's exactly how you can use it in your own sex life.

By dressing up and adding some role-playing, you may find that you are able to act and talk in a way which you may normally find too inhibiting.

Try suggesting a scenario to your partner and allocating roles, and a rough script of dialogue. Don't be too upset if the details get forgotten in the heat of passion, as you can always try and perfect the acting on the second or third "take"...

So, if you follow these few simple tips, you'll soon find your sexual performance up there with the likes of Jenna Jameson and Ron Jeremy. But remember that the key is not just to enjoy yourself, but to actually demonstrate through actions, words and noises that you are a depraved and deeply sexual porn star.